Fire-Dragon-DoL parent
15 years together, 2 kids, $0 on marriage (Canada has laws for that. After 1 year living together, it's equivalent)
15 years together, 2 kids together and you’ve never bought anything together or planned shared costs? What?
I was referring to the wedding
> $0 on marriage
I didn't mean literally pay to marry. Let's just say your kids and associated expenses is included in what I meant. Do the math:)
I see. Well of course, but supposedly as long as you are buying stuff together, you are enjoying the marriage. The cost comes in case of divorce
So you value such enjoyment at more than 109$ then evidently the price is acceptable:)
I don't value dating the same as marriage though.
If your end goal is serious marriage then $109 is insignificant change if it gets you there.