I will do that. I am in a similar diagnosis.
I know someone who had the surgery 13 years ago and it went very well. But 5 months on for you, gives me the uneasies.
My dad had it 14 years ago. It’s been in remission and to my knowledge there’s no accidents and I don’t think he had many issues from the start.
Hopefully your surgeon has performed (unlike mine) more than 1000 RALPs - the incontinence outcomes improve greatly when their experience is that high.
Best of luck to you. DM me at gmail if you need/want to talk about your upcoming RALP.