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The last part is the key problem. The host ghosted and never responded to anything after the booking confirmation. Showed up and no contact or way to get into the property. So decided to book another place while AirBnB sorted out the refund, but didn't have the necessary funds to rebook because the refunded funds would not be released until the next day (technically they said up to 4 days but in practice seems to be next day).