Same as all socialization: If you're attractive, you'll succeed no matter what you try or how you try it (You do still have to try, but that's the only requirement).
If you're unattractive, you'll fail no matter what you try or how you try it.
There's a reason why success stories in this area never talk about the author being required to or benefiting from evolving their tactics.
The author's picture is available in the article, he's not exactly Henry Cavill. Not sure what makes you think that's a requirement for hosting a successful social event
If you're unattractive, you'll fail no matter what you try or how you try it.
There's a reason why success stories in this area never talk about the author being required to or benefiting from evolving their tactics.