It's going to be hard to reason with each other if we just exchange the extreme examples we've seen in propaganda (on both sides).

That's why I quoted Hamas themselves. Because that's not Israeli propaganda. It's a factual account from a primary source.

And if you like I can provide the Hamas-supplied footage of attrocities committed against more than a thousand Israeli civilians on a -single day-.

Let's stick to primary sources if we're going to compare the horrors happening in Israel and Gaza.