Yeah it's crazy, people use Django and they think the things that are making them productive are all these little contribs and built-ins, but the reality is it's the solid foundation that is the ORM. BTW, I discovered after writing my comment that tortoise ORM is essentially Django ORM, but written on asyncpg, making it way faster. So, if you're stuck in some other non-Django framework and would like to use the Django ORM, that's probably your closest bet.
I’ve tried every orm in node and nothing compares to Django orm. The way you can scaffold an apps data models is amazing.