Good news! The builtin Temporal API is on its way. It's widely regarded as a solid API, learning from some of the best time APIs in other languages.
In terms of parsing, it looks like Temporal only accepts RFC 9557 strings (an extension of ISO 8601 / RFC 3339). Anything else throws an exception.
You don't need to burn it, you just need to never rely on the constructor for parsing user input. It all works fine as long as you know the structure of the data before you pass it in.
Let’s say you started a date lib right now that would take random strings and do its best.
Suppose you identify the string is only integers. What logic needs to be applied to make the example I pointed out make any sort of common sense?
why would you do that? that's a bad idea, and no matter what implementation you choose you will end up with some silly compromises like javascript has in it's date constructor. javascript's default choices are probably no better or worse than whatever choices you would make.
if you're writing a date parser, the first thing you should do is come up with a better definition than "take random strings and do your best" unless you're putting an LLM behind it.
Neither seem awesome.
Burn it and start again.