The driving example is interesting, because I think there are two different groups of people assessing the 'goodness' of their driving and others' driving by two different standards. One group thinks a 'good' driver is one that is skilled at driving a car; the other group thinks that a 'good' driver is the one that does the 'nice' thing in any given situation. The 'skilled' drivers look at the 'nice' drivers and think that the 'nice' drivers are unskilled and display little interest in reaching their destination. The 'nice' drivers think the 'skilled' drivers are dangerous.