inetd could pass the listening socket to the process. That was the `wait|nowait` field in /etc/inetd.conf. The typical config for TCP used with services like finger was `nowait`, which meant inetd would listen on a socket and spawn a new process for every incoming connection, without waiting for a previously spawned process to exit. But in `wait` mode it would spawn the process when it detected a connection, pass the listening socket (not connected socket) as fd 0, then wait for the server to exit before polling the listening socket again.

inetd was (remains?) a perfectly useful solution in this space. It just maybe needs some love to add some convenience features. Off the top of my head: 1) ability to split /etc/inetd.conf into, e.g., /etc/inetd.conf.d; 2) ability to trigger a restart of a specific service, rather than restarting the entirety of inetd.