"Your actual experience of existing seems innacurate."
Read that again because that is precisely what you just said to a stranger you know nothing about aside from the bits of information shared on Internet comments...which makes me super curious; who, exactly, awarded you the power to invalidate the experiences of another person simply because they did not match your own? I'd like a word with them.
There's a ton of propaganda both ways; all of it is based on blowing some small fact completely out of proportion.
The US is awesome but no place is perfect.