More mimalistic, drawing inspiration from macOS.
I still have to remove stuff rather than add stuff to get to where I want. But it wasn’t the first thing I removed on a new install.
I've had very different experiences with various desktops depending on which distribution they are on. Ubuntu tends to customize GNOME more than Fedora, so it's possible that what you didn't like was more to do with Ubuntu than GNOME. (Not dissing Ubuntu here - I tested 24.04 recently and it was fine. I actually liked some of their customizations.)
I was forced into ubuntu in that job, so whatever Canonical was shipping was effectively GNOME to me.
Also i looked into dealing with that "flavour" of gnome and the settings availability was just poor. Even XFCE which is a way smaller project does have more and better settings.
And let's not even pull KDE into the discussion, KDE has literally TONS of options.
It uses Gnome but it isn't Gnome.