If you ask a community for help you can't expect them to play with half a deck behind your back and 'trust me' when your account is a brand new one. That is simply not how this works. Trust is a two way street, you don't trust HN to know what it is you are selling but you do expect help in solving your problem. Those two don't match, especially not because you use multiple Stripe accounts and have issues with both, that alone is a pretty big red flag. A kitchen and household appliances company that is above board would have zero problems naming their website, nor would they be classified as 'high risk' by Stripe.