Basically the argument is: do it yourself, and time spent learning how to do it effectively is compensated by the time not spent fighting over complexity caused by operating (and understanding how to use properly) stuff that allegedly "does it for you".
The argument sounds plausible in principle, but I'm not entirely sure if this argument resist the harsh clash with reality (where you end up with both doing it yourself and dealing with the effects of your own complexity but this time with no community to consult)
The main point here is that instead of reaching for a costly to maintain, to configure, to secure, etc. DBMS first, many folks would likely be better served by the vastly simplified management of a single SQLite process.
A lot of solutions don’t take into consideration “day 2” operations: mostly around no downtime upgrades.