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Just curious, why do you think it's easier to change others' behavior rather than your response to it?

I’m not following
They are saying it is easier to teach yourself to not mind something rather than to try to convince other people not to do it.
How would that lead to any kind of discussion? With this logic, everybody would ignore things they disagree with and only comment on things they agree with. Maybe I misunderstood the comment.
I can't answer your question, I was just clarifying what they meant.

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